In the work that I do with veterans, and often in comments and conversations about the articles I write here on the Head Space and Timing blog, I hear variations on a theme. “Nobody really cares about veterans anymore” or “the only one that understands me is other combat veterans.” I get it; these comments, and the thoughts behind them, come from a place of frustration. They’re based on observations about how difficult it sometimes is to get our needs met, either for employment, housing, health care, you name it.
Just because some believe that, though, doesn’t make it so. There are those who are not veterans who care for veterans.
And just because the veteran has passed on, doesn’t mean that we stop caring.
Several weeks ago, a connection brought someone who supported veterans to my attention. This gentleman, Timothy McCombs, was a former coal miner and budding entrepreneur with an interesting problem: too much spent brass. As any lower enlisted service member can tell you from a day on the range, spent brass can pile up pretty quick; one night, Tim and his brother figured out how to turn that brass into cash by making some pretty neat stuff.
Tim’s not a veteran, he wasn’t able to join. He is the son of a veteran, though; his father spent over twenty years in the Army. Even though he’s not a veteran himself, he obviously has a passion for veterans. He told me that he loves reaching out and helping veterans in any way he can; which leads me to the first part of this post.
In our conversation, he told me a story about a distant relative of his that reached out to him and requested a custom piece. Instead of using his own stock of brass, however, she asked if he could make her a cross from the brass from her husband’s Three Volley Salute at his memorial service. Intrigued, he travelled to her home and spent some time with her. This is what he told me:
In the middle of our own frustrated, hectic lives, we sometimes forget the impact that our service has on those around us. Tim and Pat’s generosity…he didn’t charge Judy for the necklace, by the way…and their service to the memory of a veteran reminds us that there are people who care. There are people who support veterans and their families.
Our service does mean something.
If you’re interested in seeing more of the work that Tim and Pat have done, and get some for yourself, check out their stuff here. If nothing else, send a quick note of thanks for their dedication and generosity, and then maybe look around to see where you can pass it on.
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